Ooooh I love “High standards, low expectations” for other people! Thank you for introducing that to me! And thank you for the kind words. It’s a journey! 🙂
Bro this comes off as girl bait NGL. Like you’re encoding ‘girl talk’ power games, fair, but the frame switch comes off as a bit forced. My read is you have unintegrated facets of your masculine foundation, so your resultant feminine signal leaks the underlying frustration. That tension hasn’t found resolution yet, and manifests in style as condescension. Ironically directed to the guys you claim you’re are trying to reach.
Anyway maybe I’m off (I too am a big fan of feedback) but I will say my instinct of “girl dad” after the first sentence seems to have been on point. Good luck with the crusade, brother. ✌️
Hey — thanks for the thoughtful feedback. Nothing I write is intended to bait women, but I understand why some might see it that way. It’s something men who write about feminism often get tagged with, and I’m aware of it. I value hearing this kind of perspective because it’s not just about what I say, but about how it lands. Sounds like the delivery of my thoughts could use some work.
You’re right, I am a dad to a daughter, and that absolutely shapes how I write and communicate. I’m also still early in this journey, figuring out my tone and style. I’m not a trained writer, and my “method” is to just start and iterate along the way. My aim is to speak honestly without sugarcoating, but never to be condescending. Clearly there’s room for me to improve.
Thank you taking the time to share your perspective. I truly appreciate it.
Thanks for the thoughtful reply, good vibes. I can hear the heart you have for your daughter in your words, she’s lucky to have a dad like you! We’re all on our journey so I respect the hustle and taking criticism in stride - that tells me you’re making progress. Good to let ego not cap our ceilings!
Just having a thought if women pay they might be trying to make sure that you continue your work and raising awareness! 😉
Haha that might be it 😉
Fantastic example. Love “Strong beliefs, loosely held.” I have also found some wisdom in "High standards, low expectations" when it comes to others.
Ooooh I love “High standards, low expectations” for other people! Thank you for introducing that to me! And thank you for the kind words. It’s a journey! 🙂
LMFAO
Thanks, Jim!
Bro this comes off as girl bait NGL. Like you’re encoding ‘girl talk’ power games, fair, but the frame switch comes off as a bit forced. My read is you have unintegrated facets of your masculine foundation, so your resultant feminine signal leaks the underlying frustration. That tension hasn’t found resolution yet, and manifests in style as condescension. Ironically directed to the guys you claim you’re are trying to reach.
Anyway maybe I’m off (I too am a big fan of feedback) but I will say my instinct of “girl dad” after the first sentence seems to have been on point. Good luck with the crusade, brother. ✌️
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Sincerely, ¡¿RUCRES?!
Hey — thanks for the thoughtful feedback. Nothing I write is intended to bait women, but I understand why some might see it that way. It’s something men who write about feminism often get tagged with, and I’m aware of it. I value hearing this kind of perspective because it’s not just about what I say, but about how it lands. Sounds like the delivery of my thoughts could use some work.
You’re right, I am a dad to a daughter, and that absolutely shapes how I write and communicate. I’m also still early in this journey, figuring out my tone and style. I’m not a trained writer, and my “method” is to just start and iterate along the way. My aim is to speak honestly without sugarcoating, but never to be condescending. Clearly there’s room for me to improve.
Thank you taking the time to share your perspective. I truly appreciate it.
— Mike
Thanks for the thoughtful reply, good vibes. I can hear the heart you have for your daughter in your words, she’s lucky to have a dad like you! We’re all on our journey so I respect the hustle and taking criticism in stride - that tells me you’re making progress. Good to let ego not cap our ceilings!
Do good, and do well!
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Sincerely, ¡¿RUCRES?!